Thursday, April 19, 2007

im so -maybe not- happy


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i do what I've been taught and told .. i say and believe that if i do, i might then be happy.
i try many different things, in many different ways, i do some stuff, i say others, i meet with people ...i have tried on new colors and clothes.
left the country, yoga, shopping .. chocolate.. shoes ...
i have opened up a lot ...
i wrote, i tore, i even painted ...
at the end ... nothing but disappointment.
i keep thinking what possibly could be missing.
what is it that i didn't do, or say or think of, that would release me from this race!
its more like a task.
Reality

every human is on a task, its an obligation to try and please yourself, be happy.
we all want to be happy ... that's why we live this life .. no body wants to live it being miserable and sad. Trying/wanting to be happy makes us wake up every morning, and do what we all do.
it is the main reason for us, being happy and reaching the ultimate happiness which is of course in the after life, if we ever make it to heaven inshalah ;) -fingers crossed-

sometimes i feel like, wanting to be happy makes me unhappy!
which got me thinking I'm sure with all the variety of ppl around .. they all have their own simple little ways of trying to be happy when they're not. I'm really curious to know.. what are the other ways...???

Question

so yeah my point was .. i want to be happy ... what should i do?

*ps: -green makes me happy-

18 comments:

do0da said...

SHOTGUN!!!

do0da said...

sweety red bull makes u happy how on earth did u forget that ?

ZiZoTiMe said...

el '6aher maktob enech etkonen 6ol 7iatech men el bo2asa2 :P

Ghasheema said...

stop complaining and be thankful

thats the best way to happiness

take it from an ex-why am i not happy person :)

just be thankful

"wa etha shakartom la2azeedanakum"

Missy-TheOriginal said...

Focus on the gifts you already have and ignore others. Sometimes you feel restless with overcharged energy, boundaries erase and you lose focus. Re-focus and invest, love and simply live with passion with what you already own. That's a gift. In my opinion who does this is a hero, since everyone else is painfully losing themselves in idle things- or "what's out THERE" and valuable energy wasted.

In the end, its an inevitable phase in your life Noobie. With time and experience you will learn to settle and grow peace & wisdom inside of you. That's true happiness.

Anonymous said...

Marry me

AmoOora said...

walla this is hard.. iv been like that quite alot..
but with me im sad for a short while then i forget.. i get really unhappy but what i do is just try to focus on everything else. i forget why i am unhappy and try to ignore everything whether its something that was said to me or done..

the best thing is to ignore! just ignore everything and do what you like, want and feel like doing..

inshalla ayamich kelha fara7 0o ebtesamat ;p ayam 0o t3ady sweetie ;*

Reem said...

eeeeh.. hmmm i am not quite sure if happiness is a concept that one can reach.. it's there to make us believe that one day we're goin to reach it and be happy.. happiness is hmm moments, memories, hopes,, madri a7s one can't say "i am happy!" o 5la9.. happy for now ymkn ok.. bs happy o 5la9 no :) one thing i think u should be happy for is being YOU.. u r talented nuba.. u r sweet and caring.. u shud be happy bcoz ppl love u and wish u happiness.. i do love u, and wish u happiness.. be happy for the person u r and how beautifully u r affecting the lives of others...
-blue makes me happy-
-hugzzzz- i love u :***

Maze said...

Talk to me...p

Zalabya said...

divorce me!

phoenix said...

No3ik.. Happiness is only what you make it. It is not a bar set by the universe, it is one you set for yourself..
Being happy is only understanding life and how to live it. It is not a way or a task, it is a life style you create for yourself!

Reem said...

ee forgot to mention that i looooooooooove d pic ;)

Atinzad said...

I dont one sound like a theologen her...

A great man of our era has once reminded us of why we are here and reminded us of the path to happienes...

What ever we do, we say "It is in the way of Allah" or "All we do is for Allah" i.e. fee sabeel Allah. We do what we are required to do "Our Tekleef". if we reach the goals with "our takleef" thats fine and if we dont its fine too cause thats the will of God...

So whatever happens we should be happy and satisfied :)

Quoting ghasheema "stop complaining and be thankful
thats the best way to happiness" :)

No3iK said...

tara wayid cha3amtoni o safaltaw feeni hehehehe

tmonooon ya ppl .. bs u didnt get the point ..
i wasnt really looking for advise coz most of what u said is true, Ii already know and i do agree with it..

i just wanted to know UR lil ways of cheering ur self up when ever ur down!

hehehehehe nayways my bad .. i wasnt very clear maybe ..
i blame the redbull ;p

THANKS TO ALL :***************************************************

No3iK said...

ooooooohhhhhhhhhhh

and as in to ANONYMOUS ;) *cute*

hehehehe u made my day .. bs who are u 3ad??? :p

Anonymous said...

Superman ;)

david santos said...

Thanks for you work and have a good weekend

w7dah said...

immigrate ;-)